Je suis une béte
February 4, 2006 | Category: Sexblogs
AlwaysArousedGirl recently wrote a post on her blog that caught my eye. Entitled ‘Doggy-Style Distraction’
“Doggy style” works on so many levels for me.
1. The visuals are dramatic. I happen to think that there’s no finer position for enjoying the view of your cock sliding into a wet cunt. Also, I love the way a woman’s waist flares out - pear like - into the rounded curves of her buttocks (especially if they’re further delineated by the straps of her suspender belt). It’s one of the Big Man’s finest engineering triumphs, IMHO. And if there’s a mirror to the side of the room, it’s wonderful to watch a woman’s breasts swaying as you thrust into her.
2. There is a power game going on with the position. The woman is *so* vulnerable to your thrusts. Personally, I don’t seek to feel (or pretend) that I have that sort of power over my partner. The fact is, I relish seeing her prepared to be so vulnerable in an effort to quench her yearning for sex, her thirst to have her cunt filled. Also, if she wants to be dominated, it’s easy to emphasize those feelings by holding her wrists in the small of her back, or by the odd bit of hair-pulling or “ass-slapping”. In fact, I consider it one of life’s rewards to have my cock embedded inside a beautiful, sexy woman as I arch her body into mine with my fingers entwined in her long hair.
3. It’s a turn on for any man to have a woman offer herself to him. I can’t envisage many (any?) positions in which a woman is more on offer sexually.
4. For me, the sensations of a woman’s cunt change with the position she adopts. With doggy style, a woman feels much tauter inside; it’s as though the ‘ribs’ that line her sex are accentuated, become more pronounced. And when I’m about to come, I can intensify my orgasm deliciously by pulling right out until only my cockhead is still inside her, and then slowly pressing myself back inside as the first jet erupts. I also love the feeling of my balls bouncing against her clitoris, and of her fingers as she reaches back to find her clitoris. It’s wonderful having your balls fondled while you’re fucking.
5. I have total control of the pace. I can fuck hard or slow, long or short, and vary between those extremes at will and with little effort.
6. In terms of increasing her tactile responsiveness, I can grip both hands around her waist if I want to fuck her hard and mercilessly, reach forward to cup her breasts and squeeze her nipples, slip my fingers between her thighs to caress her clitoris, or run my nails gently down the curve of her spine or across her taut buttocks, especially while I’m teasing her clitoris and labia with my cockhead.
7. Always Aroused Girl is right: the sight of a woman’s tight anus is almost always an irresistible draw. Bad, bad man!
8. If you’re into the business of ‘pretend’, it’s a fact of life that it’s much easier to fantasise you’re with someone else if you can’t see their face. I like to encourage MW to fantasise that she’s being taken by some anonymous stranger: á la négresse intensifies such moments for her, and, as a result, for me as well.
9. It’s a position that truly connects with our animal side. We should never forget how satisfying it can be to connect with our animal sides. Even if it’s only once in a while.
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Oh yes! I have to agree with you on all points on this one, except #8. Doggy has quickly become one of my faves … I simply love the intensity of a good animalistic pounding, and my boyfriend fucks me so hard that my eyes probably pop out like this
Ah, the beautiful, lust-quenching simplicity of eye-popping sex…
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Oh my, I don’t think I’ve ever seen my name in a footnote before. What a thrill!
You are so right on all point. Makes me want some RIGHT NOW!!!!!
Thanks, dear!
You are very welcome, AAG. And thank you for the inspiration…
~EA
Doggie has been my personal favorite for years. When I was very young I didn’t like it becuase I couldn’t see my lover’s face.
I now enjoy it on different levels also…
1. A mans hands are more free, not as much as female on top, but the feeling of his body over mine and playing with my clit or tits is great.
2. I like my hair pulled when I’m in this position…I think it’s the whole animal part of me coming coming through along with:
3. I love the idea that I am ‘presenting’ my pussy to my lover.
4. Finally I also like to be spanked and it’s perfect to tame the ‘bad girl’ that I become in the doggie position.
So I say…just keep fucking me like the bitch I am !
LOL
You’re evidently a woman who knows exactly what she wants, D…
~EA
personally, I like the intimacy of watching my partner’s face and being able to grip him but you’ve got the vulnerability aspect of DS down pat. well put.
It’s nice of you to say so, M…
~EA
Doggie is the best option, in my opinion. I agree with Dirty Debbie as I love to have my hair pulled and be spanked into submission while in that position.
So for you, Eve, it’s the position that permits you to surrender to the Dark Side most completely…
~EA
I’ve been having some pretty vivid fantasies in the last couple days, and they’ve included a lot of doggy style.
I love the abandon that you feel as a chick. I was thinking sometime I might like to have a handheld mirror I could use to check out his face as he’s going at me. Maybe it’d work both ways like that. I don’t know, never had a mirror around for it, but the guy I’m thinking of, I want to see him as it happens.
That’s the only part of doggy style I’m not thrilled about — not seeing his face. I love the look on a man’s face as he’s intent on what he’s doing to me. It’s so frickin’ hot.
Great post, tho.
Thank you, Steff. I can’t take all the credit for the post, though - AAG provided much of the impetus.
I’d agree that DS is a position that can de-personalise sex for some people, especially if you rely on seeing your partner’s expression for your own pleasure, or even just as a means of feedback. It would certainly be interesting to get your take on the position when you had the aid of a mirror…
~EA
Steff,
It’s good with the mirror positioned on the side too. Mmmmm … memories 
;) 
You should try doggy in front of a mirror
EA,
I’m developing a thing for your smileys.
VS: would you prefer us to leave you and the smileys alone?
~EA
yes…oh yes…
Strangely enough, Ell, I always had you down as a “take me vigorously from behind” kind of gal…
~EA
makes a favourite position just seem more enjoyable, understanding the male side …
I’m pleased to have been able to provide a little insight, Kimmie. I doubt I’m the only male to feel this way, but I’m sure that other men will have their own unique reasons for delighting in this particular position…
~EA