The Sound of Bliss

1. Learn on August 2nd, 2005
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   Mmm sound has never sounded better than through your words.

   My musician ‘lover’ is much the same, he’s even had me send him sound clips of myself much like the one you have here (excellent one by the way, so arousing)

   Paying more attention to ‘noise’ has added such a great dimension to sex.. damn I may have to go write about this soon…

   Thanks!

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   Learn:

   thank you for the complement about the writing. I’m glad that you found the soundbite so enjoyable; it’s of MW, cresting one of those delicious peaks. I’m looking forward to reading your own thoughts concerning the impact of sounds upon sex.

   ~EA

2. Aurumgirl on August 2nd, 2005
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   What a pleasure it is to read about your perspective and experience of sex, expressed so intelligently, articulately, and seductively. Your writing is like a long, sweet, deep kiss.

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   Aurumgirl:

   That’s one of the most beautiful complements I’ve ever received. Thank you.

   ~EA

3. Flirt on August 2nd, 2005
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   First may I say, I enjoy reading your blog..you write very well.

   I enjoy the sound of a man’s pleasure as much as you seem to enjoy a woman’s. To hear a man enjoying the things being said or done to him makes my arousal even more intense and satisfying and helps to bring me to that final fulfilment more easily and makes it more enjoyable. Most men don’t seem to realize that we women enjoy hearing them, as much as they enjoy hearing us.

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   Flirt,

   thank you for the complement - I’m glad you’ve enjoyed what you’ve read.

   I can certainly understand why any person would enjoy hearing their lover’s responses to their ministrations. Of itself, it is a beautiful thing, and possibly the most sensual form of ‘feedback’.

   ~EA

4. Saphire on August 2nd, 2005
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   I just have to agree totally with comeflirtwithme, so can we hear you lol ;)xx

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   Saphire:

   if I didn’t know better, that sounds almost like a dare. Seriously though, would you really want to hear me at ‘le moment critique’? Personally, I don’t think my gasps of pleasure would have nearly the same appeal as MW’s. I’ll give it some thought though.

   ~EA

5. Ed on August 3rd, 2005
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   Mmm…delicious!

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   Hi Ed. I’m guessing that by ‘delicious’, you’re referring to the recording of MW. If so, I’d have to concur.

   ~EA

6. scribe called steff on August 3rd, 2005
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   See, those are precisely the kinds of sex noises I don’t mind. I enjoy that, a lot. Knowing I’ve done that to a man always gets me hotter. But I’d rather have it only be those gasps, those quiet groans, those sharp intakes of breath. Those all work very, very well on me.

   I make those sounds a lot when on the brink of climaxing, but I save them for that experience, and maybe a little during the more effective foreplay.

   Listening to the changes in your lover’s breathing during sex can be just as arousing, too.

   Sigh. It’s all good. That’s the problem.

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   Steff:

   seems we’re on the same page when it comes to the sounds we like to hear whilst making love. And I agree, the knowledge that you’re in some way responsible for those gasps and groans of pleasure does raise your temperature still further.

   Yes, it’s all good. And surely that’s way better than being partly good, or all bad?

   ~EA

7. The Girl on August 4th, 2005
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   EA, I am with Saphire here: whilst I thought the sound clip of MW was lovely, it would be even more delicious to have one of yourself for us to hear.

   If you were so inclined to post one that is

   Loving the new site by the way, so much nicer than IB. I need to do something similar with my own, it’s looking rather tired in comparison.

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   So now I have two of you backing me into the corner! And it’s a no-win corner to boot. If I honour the request to provide said soundtrack, it will look as though I submitted to the pressganging; if I refuse, I may as well feather myself and start making ‘pluck pluck’ noises! Life just ain’t fair.

   Seriously though, I was already giving the matter serious consideration. After all, sauce for the goose… Stay tuned.

   As to the site’s design … the beauty - and I suppose the curse - of Wordpress is its enormous flexibility and adaptability. I’ve already tried a few tweaks, and doubtless there’s a fair amount of experimentation to come, but I’m pleased with the overall look. I’m glad you approve.

   ~EA

8. Scribe Called Steff on August 4th, 2005
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   I think I’m being melodramatic when I sigh about it all being good. I suppose it should be “wistfully sighing,” perhaps.

   But I think we are on the same page, yes. I want to hear what I’m doing to them, but I want it to be at a nice, low level. After all, I’m right on top/beside/under them, am I not? Who needs volume? That’s what I hate. Too much volume, too often.

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   Steff:

   I guess “Pump up the Volume” wouldn’t be your preferred anthem then?
   

   ~EA

9. Aurumgirl on August 4th, 2005
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   You are welcome, Mr. EA.

   I think adding your own “aural illustration” to the site sounds like a wonderful idea. Wish I’d thought to encourage you to do it myself, but I’m ever so grateful to others for suggesting/”pressganging” you about it.

   Your phone sex post has made me think about my own “best” experience, and, of course, my lover’s sounds and words were so completely arousing by themselves that they continue to make up the best part of my recollection of the experience. It’s amazing the depth and weight of expression and emotion in such small, quiet and intimate sounds.

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   Arumgirl:

   And still more pressure! I may be up to baring my soul (well, parts of it anyway) in literary terms, but vocally too? I’ve seen Figleaf (amongst many others) prepared to bare his … well, prepared to bare his pretty well all in photo-form, and to considerable positive feedback from his female readership. I’m just not sure my vocal cords are nearly as interesting as you all seem to think they’ll be. But as I told The Girl, I’m giving the matter serious consideration…

   As to the rest of your comment … sound certainly is an important dimension to sex, and one that can sometimes be neglected because of our desire for more tactile sensations. For that very reason, phone sex is a great way of re-focusing your attention. Perhaps the ultimate extension of that would be to deprive yourself of all senses except for sound.

   Anyone care to experiment and report back?

   ~EA

10. KC on September 2nd, 2005
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    Sweeeet. I like how you share thoughts that are rarely expressed quite so well.

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    I’m glad you enjoyed it, KC.

    ~EA

11. Funnysparky on May 1st, 2007
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    And there is nothing more rewarding, than the deep throaty groan from deep within a man……the look on his face too, completes the experience…I love to look, listen and feel too…

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    It’s nice to know our groans of pleasure are appreciated…

    ~EA

12. Princess TC on September 1st, 2007
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    Mmmm, I’m glad you introduced me to this one. The noise really does do something to you. Just listening had me going!

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    I’m delighted it had the desired effect upon you, Princess…

    ~EA

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